Cover of The Ref

“The Ref” (1994)
Film Review by Julia Dudnik-Stern

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Gus (Leary, center) takes the Chasseurs (Davis, Spacey) hostage, only to realize, in his own words: “Great. I hijacked my fucking parents.”
"The Ref” isn’t just a great holiday movie; it’s a great movie period. It offers an entirely unique and memorable combination of powerhouse writing, directing, and acting; there isn’t one questionable line in the entire script, and the chemistry between the three lead actors (Leary, Davis, and Spacey) is unbelievable.

The premise of the plot is relatively simple: Gus (Denis Leary) is a cat burglar trying to score in a wealthy Connecticut town on Christmas Eve. Of course, everything goes wrong; as Gus thinks he got by the intricate security system of a mansion, he gets cat piss in the face, a bite on the ass from a very friendly guard dog, and an empty spot where his getaway car and driver should have been. As the police rush to the scene of the crime, Gus is forced into a grocery store where he takes a hostage, Caroline Chasseur (Judy Davis), hoping to sit out the manhunt in her house.

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What you don’t see in this still is the resident Santa who just stumbled into the Chasseurs’ living room. As Caroline and Lloyd look on, the inebriated jolly man says to Gus, “What, you’re pulling a gun on me? I’m not afraid of you. You think you can take me? I’m Santa Claus!”
Gus has no idea that he is about to find out what Hell truly is. (Gus: “I am in Hell. Connecticut is the fifth ring of Hell!”) Caroline and her husband Lloyd (Kevin Spacey) are on the verge of a divorce, despite extensive therapy. Even being held at gun point doesn’t stop their bickering, which Gus is forced to referee in a struggle for control of the situation — as he is trying to find his accomplice at every neighboring bar while avoiding daft local cops and everyone else that shows up at the Chasseurs’ door bearing fruit cake. But wait, it gets worse: Juvenile delinquent Jesse Chasseur arrives home for the holiday, bringing with him a blackmail scheme and an unhealthy attitude. And for the piece de resistance, the whole family is coming
to dinner.

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Having tied Caroline and Lloyd to chairs, Gus attempts to reason with them: “Let me say it one more time: I have a gun; it’s loaded; shut up, OK?”
“The Ref” makes an impression of a lavish production. It is beautifully shot; the ambiance of a Connecticut town during the holidays is captured perfectly. Yet the real beauty of this hilarious black comedy is that it doesn’t rely solely on dialogue; instead, the story moves at a brisk pace, with something new constantly happening and the characters responding in a manner reminiscent of real life or on-the-spot improvisation. The movie has an edge-of-your-seat feel more common to action adventures; you just can’t wait to see what else can possibly happen to poor Gus and how it’ll all work out. The characters are also atypical for a comedy; no one is one-dimensional. For instance, Gus the cat burglar with a potty mouth knows a real Chagall when he sees it on the Chasseurs’ wall. Caroline is a neurotic, bored, nicotine-addicted adulteress who puts together dinner parties combining inedible dishes with history lessons. Lloyd, an emasculated momma’s boy who manages her antiques store and lives in her house, has more guts than one would imagine, not to mention his acerbic wit.

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Just when you think you can’t laugh anymore, the story gets even funnier as the rest of the family arrives to partake in one of Caroline’s insane dinner creations (this year, everyone has to wear huge, elaborate head pieces). The balance of the household shifts as soon as the matriarch, aptly played by Glynis Johns, walks through the door, accompanied by Lloyd’s pansy brother, his wife, and their two children. As mommy dearest proceeds to torture everyone with insults, two-cent gifts, and endless reminders of her financial support, Gus attempts to pretend he is Caroline and Lloyd’s psychiatrist. He eventually loses it, and Denis Leary gets to say the line that has become a favorite among this film’s fans: Addressing Lloyd’s mother, Gus screams, “Lady, your husband isn’t dead! He is hiding!”

I’m a big fan of foul language done right, and so few writers and actors can pull it off without seeming needlessly profane. Here, the perfectly cast Leary delivers obscene lines with his usual pizzazz, while the slightly more reserved characters played by Davis and Spacey quickly catch on and let loose. (Caroline to Lloyd: “Humans have feelings. Didn’t your alien leaders tell you that before they sent you here?” Lloyd to his mother: “You know what I’m going to get you next year for Christmas? A big wooden cross, so every time you feel unappreciated for all your sacrifices, you can climb on up and nail yourself to it.”)

The charming dialogue is well supported by anecdotal detail. Santa gets drunk. Local cops manage to record a movie over a video tape, the one key piece of evidence in the burglary. Lloyd gets an erection while being tied up with his wife. Gus’s accomplice finds an ex-con girlfriend… All of this mayhem leads to a formulaic happy holiday ending — proving once and for all that there is absolutely nothing wrong with formula, provided that’s not the only thing you’ve got going. With all the classic elements of a Christmas movie, this one rises far above the usual holiday family fare.

 

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